Capt. Yarin Gahali z'l - "First of all, be a person. Then be a fighter."
- Shira Magder
- Aug 25
- 1 min read

In this heartfelt video, Rabbi Raphael Butler reflects on the profound legacy of Captain Yarin Gahali z"l, emphasizing his message to prioritize being a compassionate person before becoming a fighter. His thoughts highlights how values like integrity and mercy endure even amidst the realities of war, urging viewers to navigate their daily struggles with conscience and strength. Yarin's final words serve as a guiding principle for living a meaningful life, making the fight for one's values paramount.
Feel free to leave a message in the comments for Yarin's family. You can also share your thoughts here: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/271923015/yarin-gahali





It's a good challenge to remain human in the struggles of everyday life and only fight and stand up for what's right when necessary. Your memory is a blessing to us.
May Yarin rest in peace and may his memory be an eternal blessing.
Yarin z"l left a powerful message, First, be a person. A message to live by. Thank you for sharing this. May his legacy and his memory be for a blessing.
What a beautiful human being and complete mensch. Yarin’s death is a tragedy, but he has left a deep and abiding legacy. In his all-too-short life he had understood how to live and what is most important. זכרונו לברכה.
Erica Goldman, Portland, Oregon
Yarin sounds like an exceptional young man and a role model to many. I will carry his example of menschlechkeit with me through my day today.